To safely prepare for a pegging session, consider the following steps:
Communication: Have an open and honest conversation with your Dominant about your interests, boundaries, and expectations. Consent and comfort levels are paramount, so ensure both parties are enthusiastic about trying pegging. Discuss fears, doubts, and any boundaries you might have, as well as the logistics like when and how to prepare.
Physical Preparation:
- Hygiene: Both partners should take a shower before the session. The person receiving should pay special attention to cleaning the area with warm water and soap, avoiding harsh cleansers that could dry out the skin. If concerned about cleanliness, consider using an anal douche, but do this with caution and know that excessive use can disrupt the gut microbiome.
- Diet: The day before, eat foods that promote good digestion and avoid those that might cause gas or loose stools. High-fiber foods can help, but ensure you’re well-hydrated to aid in regular poops .
Equipment Preparation:
- Lube: Use plenty of lubricant; the anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina, so liberal use of water-based lube is essential to avoid discomfort or injury. Silicone-based lubes can damage silicone toys, so choose your lube type accordingly.
- Strap-On and Dildo: DOMMES:Get familiar with the harness and dildo. Practice wearing it to ensure comfort and learn how to adjust it for a good fit. Start with smaller, less textured toys for beginners.
- Safety: ALWAYS use a condom on the dildo to prevent the spread of bacteria or STIs, especially if the toy might be used elsewhere or with another person.
Warm-Up:
- Anal Play: Before using a strap-on, start with smaller items like fingers or a small butt plug to relax the anal sphincters. This can be part of foreplay, ensuring the body is relaxed and ready for larger objects. Gradually increase size over time if you plan on pegging more often.
- I suggest the 1-2-3-4 technique -using 1 finger for one minute , 2 fingers for two minutes 3 fingers for three minutes …so on and so forth
- Foreplay: Engage in other forms of foreplay to ensure both partners are aroused. This helps in relaxing the body, including the anal muscles, reducing the chance of pain, I often will take my thumb and run it from the top of the spine down to the base with pressure which creates a relaxing and euphoric sensation allowing the bottom to relax .
During the Session:
- Go Slow: Begin with small, controlled movements. The receiver should dictate the pace and depth, ensuring comfort and pleasure.
- Communication: Keep talking throughout the session to check in on comfort and pleasure levels. Agree on a safe word to stop if anything feels wrong.
Aftercare: After the session, discuss what worked or didn’t. Aftercare can involve physical care like cleaning up and emotional support, ensuring both partners feel good about the experience. This could also include cuddling or discussing feelings about the session.
Remember, preparation and patience are key to a positive experience, ensuring both physical safety and emotional comfort.
Yes, pegging includes a lot of physical sensations, but that isn’t all it includes. There’s a lot of mental prepwork that can go into being ready for a pegging too.
This means having a bit of education under your belt. Have you read about it ? The biggest takeaway: pegging should never, ever hurt. You might experience a bit of discomfort or fullness – especially if anal sex is new to you – but any sort of sharp, explicit pain means something is wrong. Pain during pegging means that something is wrong; it’s not something you should “suffer through”.
Pegging is filled with a whole host of seriously pleasurable sensations. There’s the feeling of sharing this intimate experience with your Dominant . You get the pressure and warmth of their body against yours. Of course, driving it all is all of the anal sensations that the dildo can provide. The anus – and inside the booty – are all packed with nerves that respond well to thrusting (for most people). If you have a prostate, there are even more sensations to enjoy – especially if the toy rubs up against the p-spot!
The P-spot orgasm is by far one of the most powerful a man can have .
Vancouvers Dainty Sadist 